The Messed Up Counsellor

Episode 50: Why do we do that, and what do we do about it?

Why do we do that, and what do we do about it?
In this episode I talk about my newly released audio book.

Episode 49: Sex and Intimacy

How can sex and intimacy can be used to affect the balance of power in a relationship. Withdrawal of it can sub-consciously be a way to display our power in a relationship.

Episode 48: Loss

On this episode I discuss how feelings of loss can sometimes lead to other painful feelings and emotions arising.

Episode 47: The horrors of online stalking

In this episode I explore the anxiety, fear and worry that can stem from not knowing who is watching us, or saying things about us which we can’t control or stop.

Episode 46: Do you ever feel invisible?

Today I explore the feelings of being invisible; getting pushed by in queues and not getting served at the bar. Sound familiar? Why is this and what can you do to change it?

Episode 45: Growing through the pain of teenage years

I can still remember the pain I went through in my teenage years. 50 years later I explore the affect it had on me.

Episode 44: Parenting and reliving our past

Is how we parent our children influenced by our own parents, and how they raised us? Once we become parents, how can we learn from our past to do the best by our children?

Episode 43: People watching

There is much humour to be found in observing human interactions. In this episode I talk about how watching humans never ceases to amaze and fascinate me.

Episode 42: Motivation and challenging boundaries.

How can we find the motivation to transcend boundaries? In this episode I explore what could be preventing us from making the changes needed to achieve our aims.

Episode 41: Skills and abilities

Some things you find easy might be hard for others, and vice versa. In this episode I explore the confusing subject of how we see the world.