The Messed Up Counsellor

Episode 73: Hoarding and keeping us safe

Episode 75: Hoarding and keeping us safe. Building the wall to hide behind, what stimulates the need to hoard and fill the space to protect us.

Episode 72: Erectile Dysfunction

Episode 72: Erectile Dysfunction is it all in your mind, what starts the process and why does it sometimes result in keeping ourselves emotionally safe.

Episode 71: Anniversary Reactions

Episode 73: Anniversary reactions and how to define and understand how they affect us and how to help spot them and work with them to minimise their effect.

Episode 70: Dyslexia he benefits not the negatives

Episode 70: Dyslexia he benefits not the negatives. What do we get
from this underrated condition and what to celebrate in your
uniqueness.

Episode 68: Gender

Episode 68: Gender, do we need it or does it get in the way. We are born with a gender prescribed to us by others, is this something that once we can have a view on hinders or helps us to exist in the world.

Episode 67: Connect To Your Younger Self

Episode 67:  Letters to help connect to your younger self, when we go through trauma when we are younger sometimes to emotionally
protect ourselves, we can split from the actual trauma
physically being experienced. The process discussed today will
help to heal and reconnect those parts of us.

Epsiode 66: Time To Find Yourself

Episode 66: Time to find yourself again, when detaching from a relationship you need time to reconnect with the parts of you that have been in hibernation.

Episode 65: Self destruct behaviour and the drives to make your world secure.

Self destruct behaviour and the drives to make your world secure. Why do we put our relationships under pressure seemingly destroying them and making the very thing we fear become a reality.

Episode 64: Living with conflict and keeping yourself emotionally safe

Living with conflict and keeping yourself emotionally safe: why do we live with conflict what does it give us.

Episode 63: Manipulation and why people derive pleasure from creating pain

Manipulation and why people derive pleasure from creating pain, seeing them through different eyes the doctor Jekyll and Mr Hyde process.