The Messed Up Counsellor
Counsellor Ian Wallace shares advice and support to help you navigate the complicated modern world.
Episodes

3 hours ago
3 hours ago
20 min
Why is it important and how do we do it? What does it look like in the modern age? Are your hobbies just passing time, or are they helping you relax and refuel your energy and resilience?

Oct 19, 2026
Oct 19, 2026
25 min
In this episode I explore the way relationships breakdown, how to build new ones, and repair old ones. I share my knowledge garnered working with couples to help you move through conflict to harmony; giving you the tools to enable more connected and quality relationships.

Oct 19, 2026
Oct 19, 2026
1 min
Hi All you lovely people just a few words as to why the weekly videos have been interrupted.

Oct 13, 2026
Oct 13, 2026
20 min
Many people will recognise the feeling of “not good enough”. In this episode we explore these complex feelings and discuss ways to help control and defeat them.

Sep 28, 2026
Sep 28, 2026
19 min
Episode 129 The critic within who controls us from beyond the past into the present, is it helpful or detrimental to our lives.

Sep 21, 2026
Sep 21, 2026
19 min
Episode 128 When illness strikes and how can we manage that; how does it affect our relationships both at home and work. The rescuer needs rescuing roles reversal.

Sep 14, 2026
Sep 14, 2026
21 min
Episode 127 Support for our work. Why do we need supervision to support our work in both our professional and personal roles.

Sep 7, 2026
Sep 7, 2026
20 min
Episode 126 Looking for love, what is love and how do we find it, what happens when we feel rejected, getting back on the dating merry go round.

Aug 31, 2026
Aug 31, 2026
14 min
Episode 125 Outside influences in our primary relationships. Why do others need to tell us what to do and where does that come from. Is it always helpful.

Aug 24, 2026
Aug 24, 2026
14 min
Episode 124 The maze of clinical diagnosis what’s our role. Do we need a diagnosis to offer therapy, does it get in the way or help the Client or us.






