The Messed Up Counsellor

Counsellor Ian Wallace shares advice and support to help you navigate the complicated modern world.

Episodes

Jan 19, 2026

21 min

Episode 96 Aging and the work ethic. What does aging do to us and when is it a positive or negative process, how can we accept it in an easier way.

Jan 19, 2026

21 min

Jan 12, 2026

20 min

Episode 95 Commitment what does it really do. By committing to another person’s needs does it increase trust and future security or feel imprisoned.

Jan 12, 2026

20 min

Jan 5, 2026

25 min

Episode 94 New Year resolutions: the good the bad and the inconsistency; make those resolutions work for you long term.

Jan 5, 2026

25 min

Dec 29, 2025

19 min

Episode 93 Christmas and New Year which amplifies Loss and Detachment, why is this time of year so hard to cope with and get through.

Dec 29, 2025

19 min

Dec 22, 2025

19 min

Episode 92: Feeling Misunderstood. Looking at our interactions and speaking the same languages, what do they think of me? And can they restrict us in what we say and do.

Dec 22, 2025

19 min

Dec 15, 2025

23 min

Episode 91 Diagnosis of an illness can devastate people and our reactions can help or hinder them and you.

Dec 15, 2025

23 min

Dec 8, 2025

21 min

Episode 90 Demands for assurance from others can lead to more pressure of responsibility, to save or persecute them.

Dec 8, 2025

21 min

Dec 1, 2025

21 min

Episode 89 Action/reaction the somatic experience and making sense of the interplay. Understanding what is you and what is the other can be daunting understanding the difference can be enlightening.

Dec 1, 2025

21 min

Nov 24, 2025

20 min

Episode 88 Suicide and the Grief process, the unique aspects. Exploring the process of grief when suicide is experienced and the different dynamics which happen.

Nov 24, 2025

20 min

Nov 17, 2025

19 min

87 The sub conscious and conscious why do we do what we do and who’s driving the bus. Sub conscious reactionary conscious thoughts.

Nov 17, 2025

19 min

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