The Messed Up Counsellor
Counsellor Ian Wallace shares advice and support to help you navigate the complicated modern world.
Episodes

Jun 15, 2026
Jun 15, 2026
12 min
111 Action reaction using the clock face. Understand how to stop bad actions to understand reactions to give a positive cycle instead of a negative destruction.

Jun 8, 2026
Jun 8, 2026
20 min
Episode 114 Power and control in our work and relationships. What do we do to offset the power in-balance in those situations and why do we sometimes need to emphasise it and when does it become a hindrance

Jun 1, 2026
Jun 1, 2026
19 min
Episode 112 Teenagers and CYP getting them to open up: Using different language structures to get to know them better.

May 18, 2026
May 18, 2026
13 min
Episode 110 Riggers of being the authentic you. Are you ever truly you or an amalgamation of the you your supposed to be.

May 11, 2026
May 11, 2026
15 min
Episode 109 Feeling misunderstood: Looking at our interactions and speaking the same languages what do they think of me can restrict us in what we say and do.

May 4, 2026
May 4, 2026
14 min
This episode looks at the role we play and when we are asked to take a responsibility role in the client's world

Apr 27, 2026
Apr 27, 2026
10 min
This episode looks at when we receive requests for information and some of the complexities that arise with those requests.

Apr 13, 2026
Apr 13, 2026
23 min
Episode 108 Trust and damaging relationships: How to build trust and what can break it down.

Apr 6, 2026
Apr 6, 2026
17 min
Episode 107 Annoying friends and colleagues, why do they annoy you so much and what do they hope to achieve from unsettling you.

Mar 30, 2026
Mar 30, 2026
24 min
Episode 106 The downside of being a counsellor, what the training organisations don’t tell you: The life of a counsellor the things you need to know.






