The Messed Up Counsellor
Counsellor Ian Wallace shares advice and support to help you navigate the complicated modern world.
Episodes

Mar 30, 2026
Mar 30, 2026
24 min
Episode 106 The downside of being a counsellor, what the training organisations don’t tell you: The life of a counsellor the things you need to know.

Mar 23, 2026
Mar 23, 2026
30 min
Episode 105 Family and social traditions are they helpful: We have many things that we accept and that play out in our interactions to others, consciously or unconsciously what if some are poisonous for us.

Mar 16, 2026
Mar 16, 2026
20 min
Episode 104 The ending of relationships and becoming the leper: Why do people you used to frequent time with suddenly give you space or reject you.

Mar 9, 2026
Mar 9, 2026
21 min
Episode 103 Giving gifts and receiving attention: Why do some people find this hard to enjoy or receive and what drives it, what does it do for the person giving the gift.

Mar 2, 2026
Mar 2, 2026
12 min
Episode 102 Are teenagers lazy or we disrespecting their growth. Looking at what might be behind the lie ins and raiding the fridge.

Feb 23, 2026
Feb 23, 2026
15 min
What and why do I do this and what have I learnt along the way in the journey of podcasting, highs and lows.

Feb 16, 2026
Feb 16, 2026
24 min
Why do people try to put us in the middle and what can we do to disengage ourselves from the role, giving it back to others.

Feb 9, 2026
Feb 9, 2026
23 min
How often can we be fully us and why do we moderate us for the benefit of others or to protect ourselves.

Feb 2, 2026
Feb 2, 2026
22 min
Exploring the dynamics of rejection and love and how we might react to the emotional signals we get from others in a negative way.

Jan 26, 2026
Jan 26, 2026
21 min
Looking at the way we mentally construct language and why some people take an age to answer our verbal input. Thinking is the obstacle to talking.






