The Messed Up Counsellor
Counsellor Ian Wallace shares advice and support to help you navigate the complicated modern world.
Episodes

Feb 17, 2025
Feb 17, 2025
21 min
Manipulation and why people derive pleasure from creating pain, seeing them through different eyes the doctor Jekyll and Mr Hyde process.

Feb 12, 2025
Feb 12, 2025
38 min
Molly and the challenge of being a young freelancer, coping with the pressure of proving yourself in the digital world. Coping with burnout and relationships and the fear of missing out.

Feb 3, 2025
Feb 3, 2025
26 min
Why does it go wrong? What can help to help smooth the waters? Today I’m looking at the obstacles that can prevent different generations understanding each other and explore some ways to achieve a better connection.

Jan 27, 2025
Jan 27, 2025
21 min
I’ve found that people look at the things which go wrong don’t often think of the things that go right. If 20% of our world is in turmoil or in a negative spiral, why can’t we consider the 80% which is going well.

Jan 20, 2025
Jan 20, 2025
22 min
How do we manage with all the pressures we bear? How can we make time for ourselves and instal some restrictions that might help?

Jan 13, 2025
Jan 13, 2025
19 min
This week I explore this interesting question in the counselling room. Is it a mirage or fantasy to be, or feel like, we are in control?

Jan 6, 2025
Jan 6, 2025
23 min
In this episode I discuss my experiences growing up, and how I learnt to express myself. Was I the black sheep or the instigator of exploration? Sometimes someone has to shake things up.

Dec 30, 2024
Dec 30, 2024
21 min
Happy new year! In this episode I discuss how to keep your resolutions on track by staying motivated.

Dec 23, 2024
Dec 23, 2024
18 min
Family gatherings can be problematic. Effective communication can often help. In this episode I explore why problems arise, and what you can do to make things easier.

Dec 18, 2024
Dec 18, 2024
16 min
We use this word a lot in our language, and I wonder if it’s a word which helps or hinders us. We strive for it, but do we ever achieve it? Can we ever achieve it? Does it create satisfaction or increase anxiety and depression?






