The Messed Up Counsellor
Counsellor Ian Wallace shares advice and support to help you navigate the complicated modern world.
Episodes

Jan 20, 2025
Jan 20, 2025
22 min
How do we manage with all the pressures we bear? How can we make time for ourselves and instal some restrictions that might help?

Jan 13, 2025
Jan 13, 2025
19 min
This week I explore this interesting question in the counselling room. Is it a mirage or fantasy to be, or feel like, we are in control?

Jan 6, 2025
Jan 6, 2025
23 min
In this episode I discuss my experiences growing up, and how I learnt to express myself. Was I the black sheep or the instigator of exploration? Sometimes someone has to shake things up.

Dec 30, 2024
Dec 30, 2024
21 min
Happy new year! In this episode I discuss how to keep your resolutions on track by staying motivated.

Dec 23, 2024
Dec 23, 2024
18 min
Family gatherings can be problematic. Effective communication can often help. In this episode I explore why problems arise, and what you can do to make things easier.

Dec 18, 2024
Dec 18, 2024
16 min
We use this word a lot in our language, and I wonder if it’s a word which helps or hinders us. We strive for it, but do we ever achieve it? Can we ever achieve it? Does it create satisfaction or increase anxiety and depression?

Dec 9, 2024
Dec 9, 2024
52 min
Alistair from Wingmen shares his experiences as an anxious person. We discuss how anxiety impacts his personal and professional life, and we learn what the group, Wingmen, is all about.
https://www.wingmen.org.uk

Dec 2, 2024
Dec 2, 2024
42 min
In this episode I talk to Ella from Open Country about how being disabled can affects people's lives. We discuss how getting out and about can help build confidence and encourage disabled people not to hide from the world. www.opencountry.org.uk

Nov 25, 2024
Nov 25, 2024
22 min
Does anxiety ever make you freeze? What’s it all about and how do we cope with it? Does it keep us safe or create distance? What can others do to help?

Nov 18, 2024
Nov 18, 2024
2 min
Why do we do that, and what do we do about it?
In this episode I talk about my newly released audio book.






