The Messed Up Counsellor

How can sex and intimacy can be used to affect the balance of power in a relationship. Withdrawal of it can sub-consciously be a way to display our power in a relationship.

On this episode I discuss how feelings of loss can sometimes lead to other painful feelings and emotions arising.

In this episode I explore the anxiety, fear and worry that can stem from not knowing who is watching us, or saying things about us which we can’t control or stop.

Today I explore the feelings of being invisible; getting pushed by in queues and not getting served at the bar. Sound familiar? Why is this and what can you do to change it?

I can still remember the pain I went through in my teenage years. 50 years later I explore the affect it had on me.

Is how we parent our children influenced by our own parents, and how they raised us? Once we become parents, how can we learn from our past to do the best by our children?

There is much humour to be found in observing human interactions. In this episode I talk about how watching humans never ceases to amaze and fascinate me.

How can we find the motivation to transcend boundaries? In this episode I explore what could be preventing us from making the changes needed to achieve our aims.

Some things you find easy might be hard for others, and vice versa. In this episode I explore the confusing subject of how we see the world.

What’s fixable, and what’s not? This can be a controversial and thought-provoking conservation, and one we should all be having.